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Hello all you brides and grooms out there…

If your wedding is coming up in the next three to five months you just might want to start thinking about what type of first dance you’d like to do for your big, big day!

Are you the wild March hare types and think a spicy tango is right up your alley?

Are you the easy-going April rider types and want to romantically rumba with your sexy other half?

Are you the “May-be” a little bit of this and a little bit of that types and would like to start out slow with a foxtrot and rev it up in the middle with some fun swing stuff?

Whatever your couple dance personality – there’s no time like the present to get out there and give it a try.

• Learning to lead and learning to follow are great tools to have no matter what type of dance you do.
• Learning how to change weight and propel yourself gracefully across the floor can get you loads of points.
• Learning how to twirl a lady without pulling out her arms in the process is so appreciated.
• Learning how to dance with your gentleman without giving him “heavy arms” is always a plus.

There are literally hundreds of tips and tricks to learning to dance as a partnership and I’d love to be able to share some of them with you.

After all, why shouldn’t you look as beautiful and handsome on the dance floor as off?

Call or text me at 949.400.7347 for availability and let me know what song you’re thinking about too!

Happy… in like a lion and out like a lamb… March

Jillian

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Don't forget to wear some green on Saturday!

Valentine's Day Gift Certificates For First Dance Lessons!

Well, it’s almost that time of year again!

Guys may dread it… Gals may love it…

But never-the-less… Valentine’s Day is just around the corner.

If you’ve tried all the goodies to eat and cuddle with and wear and feel like maybe taking the plunge to try something new – how about dancing lessons?

Either a gift certificate for some fun times to look forward to or maybe even a lesson the weekend before to get everyone in a happy mood.

If you’re getting married this year Valentine’s Day dancing lessons might be just the ticket for a smoother, more relaxed feeling on the dance floor when that first dance big moment rolls around.

I can help you learn some wonderful lead and follow techniques, some kicky steps and of course you’re welcome to bring in your most romantic songs that say “you two” all over them.

So bring some love into your life with a little dancing this Valentine’s Day and I bet it will last you all year long.

Hugs and hearts to all you soon to be brides and grooms out there,

Jillian

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Sooo what are your New Year’s resolutions?

… Maybe get married?

… Maybe get some dance lessons?

… Maybe have a fun and romantic first dance?

Thought so

Happy 2012!

Trends for 2012 include keeping that guest list small, going “green” and having the wedding that says “you” all over it…

What better way to say “you” than having a first dance that showcases you and your new spouse dancing to the song that is totally “you”?

Well, if you’ve got that resolution then the time to start is NOW!

A couple of dance lessons getting you both into the lead and follow of it will go a long way toward helping you to feel “oh-so-comfortable” on the dance floor in front of all your nearest and dearest.

Remember first dances can be anything you like them to be… from a friendly twirl and sway combo to a romantic dip and cuddle medley with a sweet kiss here and there.

You can make the dancing go to the song or make the song go to your dancing!

You can showcase the extrovert of the two of you or you can “just dance” and let everyone watch how you smile and have fun with each other.

Whatever you like is whatever we can do.

“Just dance!”

Contact me today to find out more about dance lessons and what you can learn to your special song.  I’ve got lots of song suggestions on my website and in my iPod so don’t hesitate to tell me what you’re imagining and we’ll make it happen.

Here’s to a happy and healthy 2012!

Fondly, Jillian

Visit my FaceBook for some fun 2012 trends… “nude” shoes and bouquets are in and of course vintage weddings and “good night stations”…

Happy New Year from Jillian!

RAIN!

Ok, so you haven’t really even dared to think about it, but there it is staring you in the face!

RAIN

The Weather Channel is calling for some “scattered showers” on your day of days!

Well, there’s no time like the present to think about that “possibility of rain” and plan for it.  Talk to your wedding planner about a “Rain Plan” and what your options may be for you and your groom and guests.

If your wedding is going to be outside look into some good old fashioned tents to keep everyone dry while your pictures turn out gorgeously!

It’s a known fact that photos taken in the rain are really fantastic but of course no one wants to catch a cold or be too uncomfortable.  Click here for a cute rainy day wedding article and adorable groom and best man pic walking in the wet stuff!

And there are always umbrellas and don’t forget they come in some pretty fashionable looks and colors these days.  All the way from white to clear and some bold black ones for the groomsmen and colors to match the bridesmaid’s dresses.  Click here for some info.  Click here for some adorable pics of “Wellies” for your wedding day.

Warm drinks and warm food can really help with the chill so discuss some “Rain Plan Refreshments” with your caterer.  After all, it could be fun to have a bit of a sprinkle and some hot apple cider and warm cookies on your special day.

Did you know that in many cultures rain on the wedding day is considered quite lucky?  The idea is a “wet knot” is harder to untie and since marriage is often referred to as “tying the knot” there you have it!

What about that dance?  Again, if you’re going to be outside you may want a “Plan B” for your dance since you’ll want to be safe in your high heels and not get your dress wet and dirty on the ground.  Luckily dancing stirs up the blood so at least you’ll be warm waltzing, foxtroting or whatevering with your dashing groom!

And finally remember… your wedding day will be absolutely fantastic simply because it is your wedding day!  And no little sprinkles from the sky can change that fact.

Happy Wedding Day even if it rains…

Jillian

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Bridal Veil Lengths

The wedding veil and… the first dance!

Will you be dancing your first dance with your veil on?

If you answered yes, how long or short is it?

Does it reach to the floor?

Just a “finger tip”?

A “blusher”?

Whatever the veil is let me know about it when I’m learning about your special clothing and shoe issues you have for your first dance.

A long veil has the hidden “opportunity” of getting wound-up around the groom’s arms as he leads the bride in a twirl or cuddle… and we don’t want him to end up trapped in a web of white netting!

Shorter veils don’t get in the way as much however, there is still the chance that the groom may take his lovely bride into the dance frame and trap the veil underneath his right hand on her back.

This would not be optimal since he certainly doesn’t want to pull anything (read that hair and veil attachment combs or pins) that might endanger the bride’s carefully coiffured wedding day hair-do!

Here are a few dos and don’ts for first dances with veils:

1. Do consider bringing a “practice veil” of the proper length to one of your dance lessons if you think your veil could be an important accessory for your groom to remember;
2. Do consider removing your veil if your first dance is going to be a frisky swing or salsa (you can always put it right back on afterwards!);
3. Don’t worry if you are really in love with your veil or it goes super perfectly with your amazing gown – we can always work out the logistics with your groom and you and the veil will be safe from embarrassing windups or hair disasters;
4. Don’t forget to let me know how you’ll be dressed either before your first lesson, so your groom won’t hear about THE dress, or we can send your groom to get a drink of water and you can show me a picture on your phone and give me all the details.

Want to know more about all the different types of wedding veils?

Visit this informative web page at http://www.wedding-veil.com/how-to-choose-a-veil-old.html on “How To Choose A Perfect Veil”.

Happy almost Halloween & hope you get lots of treats!

xxoo Jillian

Visit my couple’s testimonials page at http://ourweddingdance.com/couples.htm to read wonderful notes from so many of my fantastic brides and grooms.  You can always email me at Jillian@OurWeddingDance.com or text or call me at 949.400.7347 about your wedding veil!

If your wedding is coming up in October, November or December now is the time to consider your first dance!

Will it be slow and romantic or upbeat and swingy?  Will your dance have  lots of movement  to show off a big dance floor or are you working with a small square or runway floor and need something compact?

Don’t have a song yet?

Well, let me tell you what some of my couples are using right now so you can get those creative juices flowing!

Click on the (Lyrics) link to see the wonderful words to these great first dance songs and see if they don’t just describe your relationship perfectly!

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First Dance Songs!

“Wrapped Up In You” by Garth Brooks (Lyrics)

“Someone Like You” by Van Morrison (Lyrics)

“Yellow” by Coldplay (Lyrics)

“Better Together” by Jack Johnson (Lyrics)

“When The Stars Go Blue” by Tim McGraw (Lyrics)

“I Knew I Loved You Before I Met You” by Savage Garden (Lyrics)

“These Are The Days” by Van Morrison (Lyrics)

“L-O-V-E” by Frank Sinatra (Lyrics)

“I’ve Got You Under My Skin” by Michael Buble (Lyrics)

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Whatever song you choose you’ll want to get started soon on learning how to lead (gentlemen) and how to follow (ladies).

I write everything down at the end of each lesson so you have something to practice with at home and you’re always welcome to bring your phone or camera and we can video some steps too!

Remember the further away from the big day you start the more the dancing steps and technique have a chance to get into your muscle memory.

After all don’t you want to be gazing into each others eyes rather than trying to remember what comes next in your dance

For more song suggestions visit my Music page at:

http://www.OurWeddingDance.com/wedding-music.htm

And… you can always text me at 949.400.7347 and ask me what type of dance would go well with the song or songs you’re thinking of using!

Happy September,

Jillian

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And your wedding is coming up in the middle of it all…

So what can you do to make you and your guests more comfortable?

Water, Water, Everywhere

By now everyone knows to have plenty of liquids (and read that water!) on hand for you and your guests.

“De-bug”

Bug off is a good idea too if you think you’ll be in an area where you’ve got critters that may want to help you celebrate.

Favors

And of course the weather is a good excuse to offer your guests some nice favors that can help them beat the heat.

Fans for your fans!

Summer wedding dance?

Well, summer time might not be the optimal time for that energetic Viennese waltz you were thinking about.

Or that faster than lightning Salsa dance that caught your attention on YouTube!

And it all depends on your song…

Summer first dances are fun to do to beachy, reggae tunes or slow, sexy rumbas that ooze across the floor or lazy foxtrots and waltzes.

After all who wants to break a three towel sweat (“glow” for us ladies) that makes makeup run like a marathoner and tests even the best deodorants???

Here are two cool tunes for Summer sashays on the wedding dance floor that you haven’t heard a hundred times:

“Slow Dance Slow” by This Blue Heaven (click for YouTube)

Maybe it all ends
Right here tonight
And all that’s left will be
Me and the starlight
Maybe I’ll float away from here
Without you dear
Hold me anyway

Slow, dance slow with me
Heart to heartbeat
Slow, dance slow
One more time

Sing me a lullaby
In my ear now
The moon is black tonight
And my head is full
Make it all fade away
Like only you can do
Say it’ll be okay

Slow, dance slow with me
Heart to heartbeat
Slow, dance slow
One more time

My hand in yours
Your cheek on mine
Time’s restless sand can fall
Around us tonight

Slow, dance slow with me
Heart to heartbeat
Slow, dance slow
One more time
Slow, dance slow with me
Heart to heartbeat
Slow, dance slow
One more time

I dreamed that we were in a ballroom
Dressed up tie and gown
Tethered and winding, spinning and shining
Like angels floating down

We danced the night away
We danced the night away
We danced the night away
We danced the night away

We danced all time away
We danced all time away
We danced all time away
We danced all time away

Slow, dance slow
One more time
Slow, dance slow with me
Heart to heartbeat

I Wanna Love You Forever by Jessica Simpson (click for YouTube)

You set my soul at ease
Chased darkness out of view
Left your desperate spell on me
Say you feel it too
I know you do
I’ve got so much more to give
This can’t die, I yearn to live
Pour yourself all over me
And I’ll cherish every drop here on my knees

[CHORUS]
I wanna love you forever
And this is all I’m asking of you
10,000 lifetimes together
Is that so much for you to do?
Cause from the moment that I saw your face
And felt the fire in your sweet embrace
I swear I knew.
I’m gonna love you forever

My mind fails to understand
What my heart tells me to do
And I’d give up all I have just to be with you
and that would do
I’ve always been taught to win
And I never thought I’d fall
Be at the mercy of a man
I’ve never been
Now I only want to be right where you are.

[CHORUS]

In my life I’ve learned that heaven never waits no
Lets take this now before it’s gone like yesterday
Cause when I’m with you there’s nowhere else
That I would ever wanna be no
I’m breathing for the next second I can feel you
Loving me … I’m gonna love

[CHORUS]

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And what to play to get those guests out there dancing and having fun?

Well, turn on the misters and how about this summer sensation mix…

Best Dance Songs – Music 2011 (Summer 2011) Top 5 Hits Mix by George Deejay

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You can check out some interesting articles on beating the heat at Summer weddings here and here.

And call me at 949.400.7347 or email me at Jillian@OurWeddingDance.com to talk about your wedding dance ideas!

Stay cool…

xxoo Jillian

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Love Is In The Air

Read on for some new ideas:

1)  “Reasons to Love You” by Meiko

Super romantic and a great sound!

Click on the URL below to hear Meiko’s haunting and romantic voice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0mc1rQG7Uc

Lyrics:

“Give me a reason to fall in love
Take my hand and let’s dance
Give me a reason to make me smile
Cause I think I forgot how

I wanna fall asleep with you tonight
I wanna know that I am safe when you hold me tight
I wanna feel like I wanna feel forever
Girls need attention, and boys need us
So let’s make everybody glad
That they have each other in each others arms
Oh let’s make everybody glad

I want you

I wanna dream away with you tonight
We can go anywhere you would like
I wanna feel how I wanna feel forever

(Instrumental)

I want you”

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2) “All About Lovin’ You” by Bon Jovi

One word – “love”!

Click on the URL below for a great song and video with a wonderful ending!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eb1oFIqBVzA

Lyrics:

“Looking at the pages of my life
Faded memories of me and you
Mistakes you know I’ve made a few
I took some shots and fell from time to time
Baby, you were there to pull me through
We’ve been around the block a time or two
I’m gonna lay it on the line
Ask me how we’ve come this far
The answer’s written in my eyes

Chorus:
Every time I look at you, baby, I see something new
That takes me higher than before and makes me want you more
I don’t wanna sleep tonight, dreamin’s just a waste of time
When I look at what my life’s been comin’ to
I’m all about lovin’ you

I’ve lived, I’ve loved, I’ve lost, I’ve paid some dues, baby
We’ve been to hell and back again
Through it all you’re always my best friend
For all the words I didn’t say and all the things I didn’t do
Tonight I’m gonna find a way

Chorus:
Every time I look at you, baby, I see something new
That takes me higher than before and makes me want you more
I don’t wanna sleep tonight, dreamin’s just a waste of time
When I look at what my life’s been comin’ to
I’m all about lovin’ you

You can take this world away
You’re everything I am
Just read the lines upon my face
I’m all about lovin’ you

Guitar Solo

Chorus:
Every time I look at you, baby, I see something new
That takes me higher than before and makes me want you more
I don’t wanna sleep tonight, dreamin’s just a waste of time
When I look at what my life’s been comin’ to
I’m all about lovin’ you

All about lovin’ you”

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3)  “Radio Love” by Edward Maya & Vika Jigulina

A real change of pace!

Click on the URL below for the YouTube video  – beautiful!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-Z3YrHJ1sU

Lyrics:

“When you gonna stop breaking my heart
I don’t wanna be another one
Paying for the things I never done
Don’t let go, don’t let go to my love

I hate to see you cry, your smile is a beautiful lie.
I hate to see you cry, my love is dying inside.
I can fix all those lies, oh, baby, baby, I run, but I’m running to you
You won’t see me cry, I’m hiding inside
My heart is in pain, but I’m smiling for you.

Can I get to your soul ? Can you get to my thoughts ?
Can you promise we won’t let go ?
All the things that I need, all the things that you need
You can make it feel so real.
‘Cause you can’t deny, you’ve blown my mind
When I touch your body, I feel I’m losing control
‘Cause you can’t deny, you’ve blown my mind
When I see you baby, I just don’t wanna let go

When you gonna stop breaking my heart
I don’t wanna be another one …

I hate to see you cry, your smile is a beautiful lie.
I hate to see you cry, my love is dying inside.
I can fix all those lies, oh, baby, baby, I run, but I’m running to you
You won’t see me cry, I’m hiding inside
My heart is in pain, but I’m smiling for you.
Oh, baby, I’ll try to make the things right
I need you more than air, when I’m not with you
Please, don’t ask me why, just kiss me this time
My only dream is about you and I.”

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Make an appointment today to come in and start dancing to your dream song!

Happy Spring, Jillian

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Our Wedding Dance for 1st Dance Help Fast!

And I just couldn’t resist this adorable picture I saw today on Yahoo News of President Obama and First Lady Michelle DANCING!

Michelle’s Valentine’s Day advice, btw, is “Laugh with your partner”.  And she attributes much of the success of her 19 year marriage to “a lot of laughing” together.

In this Jan. 20, 2009, file photo President Barack Obama dances with first lady Michelle Obama at the Midwestern Ball on the night of his inauguration in Washington. Here's the first lady's advice for couples this Valentine's Day, Monday Feb. 14: laugh with your partner. She says it's what she and the president do, and it seems to be working. It also helps that her husband is "very romantic". (AP Photo/Manuel Balce Ceneta, File)

So on this wonderful Valentine’s Day why not take a leaf out of their book and laugh together while getting ready for that first dance?

I offer foxtrot, waltz, swing and tango just to name a few of the fabulous dances you can learn for your wedding!

Why not get Dad out to polish up some of his moves for the Father/Daughter dance or maybe Mom for the Mother/Son dance?

It can’t hurt and I bet it leaves everyone feeling just that much more prepared for the big day!!

Besides, I promise we’ll do some laughing to help ease the stress during the hectic wedding preparatory months.

Give me a call at 949.400.7347 or email me at Jillian@OurWeddingDance.com

You can visit my FaceBook page here too and see lots of fun videos of my couples dancing and testimonials and pictures from their awesome day of days!

To read the Yahoo News article I’ve referenced, just click here.

And Happy VDay to all.

xxoo Jillian

I just opened my email and what did I see?

I had a YouTube video of one of my couple’s awesome wedding dances from their wedding of July 1st 2007!

What a blast from the past!

And wow, what a dance they did!

Watching it again brought tears to my eyes and I remembered all over again what a great time we had putting together their totally amazing dance. 

Here’s the video below and their incredibly sweet email:

Hi Jill!

We finally posted our wedding dance on YouTube.com and we wanted you to see it.

Thanks for making us look so great!

Wedding guests STILL tell us it’s the BEST wedding dance they’ve ever seen.

Just as an update, we have a 2 year old son named Elijah Samuel.  He’s talking and trying to control his environment (and US!)  He has a great sense of humor and keeps us BUSY.

Hope all is well with you.  We miss you and we will eventually find our way back to you.

Love, Lena and Jeff

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Can’t believe they have a son!  My, my time flies…

BTW they danced to BJORK’s “It’s Oh So Quiet” and it was spectacular. We worked on the slow parts with waltz and Viennese waltz steps and the fast parts with some kicky swing and disco moves.

You can see in the video Lena worked super hard to keep her upper body looking gorgeous in her dress and really emphasized her beautiful arms and hands and Jeff lead everything with a great eye to keeping off of her dress and creating a fun and romantic dance!

Click here for the lyrics to this real crowd-pleaser of a first dance song.

And remember if you’re getting married in 2011 start thinking about your dream first dance now!

Happy almost February!

Jillian

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Email me at Jillian@OurWeddingDance.com soon to get started on your first dance for your 2011 wedding day!